Arguments

One thing we cannot escape from our life is getting involved in arguments.

I think it's redundant. What's the point?

It's a lose-lose situation. Friendships are broken. Couples breakup. Parents divorce. Workers resign. People fight. Countries engage in war. Losses and damages gained. Tell me, who's the winner?

Similar to everyone, I've been involved in arguments before. Usually it's about who's right and who's wrong. I must admit it's not something to feel good about. Sometimes I even felt like....like...doing the most unimaginable things ever. But no point kan. Do already then regret because there's no turning back.

When I was the Assistant Head Prefect, I often marah-marah the hardcore students in my school. It may be a form of disciplinary action, but I feel like there's no good karma in it. What to do, it's my duty -.- Everywhere I've been , even in National Service, arguments spark between Company members concerning whose the best in everything. When they could not come up to an agreement, they fight. Needless to say it was an unpleasant sight.

My point is, why can't people talk things nicely? Is it that hard to do so? Why waste time and energy by arguing in which doesn't guarantee satisfactory outcomes?

Guys argue a lot, even when playing Dota or talking about football. I think it has become our ego as not to lose in arguments? Fight and fight and fight, and just like all living things, only the strongest prevail. Girls also argue la. The difference is guys argue on big matter for a short period while girls argue on small matter for a long period like who bought the latest Jimmy Choo first. Haha. xD

It's been quite some time I've been trying to refrain myself from arguing. I try to put a smile on my face and and try to avoid it. There are times I felt like losing my cool, but thank god I managed to control it. So far so good la :)

To argue, it's just not nice.

Scolding cursing and shouting is not fun lah.